A close friend of mine has recently been struggling with a life-long syndrome of second-place-ed-ness (that feeling that someone else is always a little better than you...you're never the first choice or anyone's first priority). I feel you, babe. Whoever said that being first isn't important was a fucking moron. He apparently never had to deal with the kick in the stomach pain of being brushed aside or looked over. Well, Mr. Wise Quote...it fucking hurts. So fuck you.